Mastering love, by Don Miguel Ruiz

The only way to master love is to live love, you do not have to judge your love, nor explain it yourself, you only need to live it and practice it, because practice creates mastery. Your love is what makes you happy, and if you are generous with it, you will gain everyone's love and you will not remain alone, but if you are selfish, you will stay alone, and blame should not be placed on anyone but yourself, your generosity is what opens doors for you, not your selfishness. You will be the right man for her if she loves you as you are, and she does not have to change anything in you, and she does not have to be responsible for you, but she can trust you as you are, and as you present yourself, and she can be honest to show you her true self, she will not come to you pretending to be something else, then discover that she was deceiving you. The woman who loves you loves you as you are, and if she wants to change something in you, that means you are not the person she wants, so why did she choose to be with you? When you decide to establish a relationship with someone, you are there to serve the person you love and have chosen, you are there to give your love to the beloved, and for one of you to serve the other, feeling in every kiss and every touch that you are there, one of you to make the other happy, without expecting anything in return, and the desire to be with each other is greater than sexual desire, and sex becomes wonderful too, but it is completely different, sex becomes sharing, and becomes surrender, dance, and art, and the highest expression of beauty.