The collection of Al-Shafi'i

If a person does not care for you except with pretense, and you do not often complain about people, there are replacements, and in the Turks there is comfort, and in the heart there is patience for the beloved, even if there is drought. Not everyone you love loves your heart, and not everyone you have purified for yourself has truly been pure for you. If the purity of friendship is not natural, then there is no good in a friendship that comes with pretense.