The golden rules in managing brotherly conflicts

Teach your son how to solve his problems with his brothers I have asked a number of judges and lawyers about the percentage of cases filed before the courts that are filed by siblings against each other? They said: about 20%, meaning one-fifth of the cases in courts are between brothers and siblings, including inheritance issues, beating, insulting, and others. And this made me ask some of those responsible for family reconciliation committees, what problems occur between siblings? And how do you solve them? They said: many problems do not require much creativity to be solved, they only need a simple dialogue between siblings, a concession of ego, a desire to preserve love, and training in childhood and adolescence on ways to solve problems and disagreements calmly and lovingly... O noble educator, one of the main goals of Satan is to corrupt the relationship between brothers and to seek to divide them, and therefore the reward for those who reconcile them is great, because of the Prophet’s saying, peace be upon him: "Shall I not tell you of something better than fasting, prayer, and charity?" They said: Yes. He said: "Reconciliation between people, for it is the severing of the ties of faith." [Sahih Abi Dawood by Al-Albani, Hadith 4919]... And from here, your effort to teach your children how to solve their problems, and to raise them on practical and theoretical love, all this effort will be rewarded - God willing - with a reward greater than your prayer, fasting, and charity. And so that we may share in the reward of reconciliation between brothers, and to prevent Satan from sowing enmity among our children, I have strived in this book to present practical ideas that help parents manage conflicts between children, and teach the brother (and sister) how to solve his problems with his siblings with creativity and love. Number of pages: 175 pages Size: 24*17 cm