The painful joy story

One of the features of happiness is their saying: abandon what harms you… and they are truthful; but isn't some harm what cannot be left or ignored but must be faced; for it may spread and destroy the community. How many safe countries and peaceful villages lived their lives in happiness and cooperation, but the intruders seized the opportunity to exploit their people, and to invest in societal flaws inherited by their inhabitants; they promised them progress and advancement, and dazzled them with intellectual and urban appearances; only to destroy their culture and wealth after neglecting the virtues of their civilization and the richness of their past; they divided them, and sowed discord in their communities… Perhaps they neglected payment methods and misunderstood the matter!! How can you live freely? While your mind is still submissive, dazzled by appearances, and following the unknown? Aren't individuals miniature images of society? They suffer what society suffers, and perhaps the environment and communities have cast their burdens on individuals; so they endured the injustice of their oppressive rulers and their deception… and they suffered disorder between the chaos of the present and the rigidity of the past, souring their lives and the lives of those they love!! Why does a person exploit his position or status to impose an alien culture or pass it on for his own interests… Until when will lovers and those in love suffer all this misery and pain?! And can people help them? Do their crisis periods include opportunities for pure love? Why all these tests and obstacles? Isn’t it clear who is genuine and who is fake, who is chaff and who is wheat, who is high and who is low? When will society, with its members, say: Woe to him who wastes his homeland, sells his principles, and separates loved ones in the world of secrets; and in the hadith: Whoever separates a mother from her child, Allah will separate him from his loved ones on the Day of Resurrection. Narrated by Tirmidhi and others. Does love start with a glance or a stance?! And what if it doesn't last with frequent companionship? If it doesn't last, then just admiration…