The four fears

I fear disappointing others by failure in some work and the judgments that people pass about me. I fear abandonment, bothering others by my annoyance, expressing my opinion, and expressing my feelings. So to whom does a man like me easily go with his daily fears? And where does he start? This book suggests dividing all daily life fears into four categories, which are interconnected because they all stem from a constant conflict in the heart of each of us between the child we were and the adult we will become. But that internal conflict is not free from anyone; rather, there are people who are less fearful than others.