Double standards - balance in reading body language

Our desires sometimes push us to believe what we want and dismiss what bothers us without awareness; when we find someone we are inclined to, we do not make eye contact and say they are shy: but when we find someone whose presence we do not enjoy in the same situation, we say they are insecure. And so we are biased, interpreting one behavior in two different ways; finding justifications for everything happening in front of us that suit our desires. A body language expert may fall into injustice because of these subconscious motives. Therefore, we have placed the techniques of this skill in a philosophical framework that helps the reader to think rationally when reading those around them. Philosophy is not ideas above reality: but a means to understand it, and it is the first supporter of the Shakla process that encourages humans to think before making judgments and to pose questions instead of confirming answers. But the most important question is: can we deal with the truth?